It’s so beautiful I want to cry …

It’s been a tough few weeks, and this morning I was reminded just what it’s all about. I was reading “All the lost things” by Kelly Canby to a Grade 2 class, and at the end, one little girl said “It’s so beautiful I want to cry” at which point I also wanted to plink a tear. Because it is beautiful. And what is even more beautiful is when a 7 year old recognises and empathises with beauty in a book.

lost-things

From an instructional point – it also has great links to the string of Lauren Castillo books we’ve been reading as part of the Global Read aloud  so we could refer back to “Nana in the City” and “Yard Sale”.

The other moment of sad beauty this morning was reading “Small Things” by Mel Tregonning. It was the third or fourth time I’ve started reading this, and each time I had to stop after a few pages since it’s not something you can just read in a hurry. It’s something that needs you to slow down and take your time. You also both need to not know the back story before reading it, and then to read the back story and then read it again.  Many young children suffer from stress and anxiety. The fact this is a wordless book makes it even more powerful. Look at the demons following him and eating away at his existence.

I’m almost at a loss at what to do with this. I can see parents being terrified by this, and yet we need to acknowledge the range of feelings and emotions our children endure. It would be a powerful book for use with bibliotherapy, but one almost doesn’t want it used wrongly.

What to read when

Bibliotherapy is a very specific branch of librarianship and one that I know very little about, although I’d like to know more.  I’ve always been of the opinion that no matter what the question, a book is nearly always the answer.  Even if it doesn’t provide all the answers or the right answers at least you know you’re not alone (and that there are people worse off than you).

In the last three days I’ve recommended “Crucial Conversations” to four different people, for different reasons.  I think it is a book that stands out in providing ways of tackling life’s grittier questions and confrontations that are necessary but often avoided because one doesn’t always know how to go about it without making a difficult situation even worse.  I also subscribe to their “crucial skills” newsletter which has some pretty good ongoing discussions. And every time I’m reminded how I fall short in reality!

There are a few other “go to” books that I always come back to when people ask me about issues with kids

Those are a few that spring to mind – anyone else have suggestions?